Busy with clinics |
Translating the women's talk |
Just as we were packing up to leave the village, we found ourselves with two more patients. A mum had returned to her house to find that her husband had got frustrated with the kids, so beat them with a stick and threw them out of the house. Their house was on stilts, so being thrown out involved falling a long way down. I know domestic violence is a huge problem in PNG. It is talked about in the media here as well as at home, but usually it is not staring me in the face. Usually it does not come in the form of two small boys who are clearly concussed and a mother with tears in her eyes.
We did what we could. We provided pain medication for the boys. We convinced the mum to bring the most injured boy to the hospital for observations overnight and guaranteed to bring them back to the village the next day. We let the other boy stay to ‘sleep it off’, because we had no right to do anything else, as much as it went against the medical conscience of the team. We celebrated the next day when the boy who went to hospital was alright. We prayed that the beatings will not continue and that the children will grow up strong and healthy.
When I looked into the teary eyes of the mother holding her two small boys, with tears in my own eyes, I think then we truly communicated, without the need for any words in any language.
Hanna I love you! I absolutely loved working with you those couple of weeks, and love your perspective on everything that happened that day... you're beyond awesome, don't ever forget that xxx
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