Table setting by the UK and Aus collective. We had to explain that a bottle of wine is okay in our home countries. |
Working overseas in an international organisation means negotiating the ins and outs of various cultures. Sometimes we’re aware of our cultural preferences and reactions and are able to moderate our behaviour in the face of other cultures. Other cultural judgements are so deeply ingrained that we don’t recognise them, react because of them, and can’t believe that ‘they dare to call themselves Christians when they do/say/think that.” Meanwhile ‘they’ are thinking the same about us.
Place setting for one by the Koreans. |
To aid in understanding our own and each other’s cultures I
attended a workshop on multicultural teamwork. In our class was a good cross
section of the cultures within the organisation. I was the only Aussie in my
group. I always felt uncomfortable saying ‘In Australia we…’ because I’ve
always lived around migrants and am well aware that Australians have many
flavours in how we do things. Still, it was good to share stories, reflect and
discover. Seemingly small matters such as how a house ‘should’ be arranged,
what is ‘clean’ or dirty’, what is ‘work’, what is ‘good’ food and how a table
should be set or a meal arranged all revealed to us our cultural preferences
and expectations.
The main key for understanding culture was looking at how
cultures vary on two spectrums; community and structure. Valuing strong
community and minimal structure results in communal cultures like PNG. A strong
sense of community with a strong structure describes hierarchical cultures like
Korea. The strong structure, but valuing individuals rather than community results in more institutional cultures like
the UK. Individuating cultures like the US place a high value on individuals
and a low structure. All of us move between cultural types in different
settings, but we all also have a default where we feel most comfortable and
where social interactions make the most sense.
I feel that Australia falls between the strong individuating
culture of the US and the strong communal culture of PNG (Meaning low structure
but an in between value placed on community or the individual). Each of them
had familiar elements, but neither quite fit. Meanwhile, I function well in the
hierarchical culture when sailing and in institutional contexts such as church
and educational structures.
Table setting by the US participants |
The workshop was not revolutionary for me, probably because
I’ve long lived in multicultural settings, but it was a good reminder of some
of the values which underlie our differences. None of us can claim our culture
is entirely correct, for each cultural type also has its typical weakness. What
we can do is learn from each other, valuing the strengths of the other and
finding ways to know each other better and to live together well.
*This course was based on Sheryl Takagi Silzers book
‘Biblical Multicultural Teams’ if you want to find out more.
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